Friday, November 15, 2019
10 Signs You Hate Your Job
10 Signs You Hate Your Job 10 Signs You Hate Your Job Every job comes with rough patches. Maybe your awesome boss leaves, and you have to adjust to a new manager. Perhaps business starts booming, which is good news- but the side effect is that youâre required to put in extra hours and meet tougher deadlines. Or maybe you take on a new role and have to learn a lot of new skills in a hurry in order to get up to speed. There are a lot of situations in which your job gets harder, but not necessarily worse. And then there are the times when you just flat-out hate your job. Being able to tell the difference is important. You donât want to quit a job thatâs still getting you where you want to go in your career, just because things are a bit more difficult right at this moment. There could be a way you could learn to love your job even if it doesnt feel like it right now. On the other hand, itâs a bad idea to stay in a job you hate any longer than you have to (read: until you can find a new, more promising job). Hanging on to a bad work situation can lead to burnout, and it may be time to move on. So how do you know when you really, truly hate your job? Look for these signs. 1. You Have the Sunday Night Blues⦠Every Night of the Week Even when youâre working at your dream job, and love almost everything about what you do, Sunday nights are rough. Itâs normal to feel a little twinge of regret as the weekend draws to a close and your Monday-morning to-do list looms. But when those Sunday Night What-Ifs become an every-night occurrence, itâs a good bet that your job is the problem. 2. You Have a Lot of New Physical Ailments Do you have aches and pains that werenât there a few months ago? Are you having trouble sleeping? Has your appetite changed? These are all physical symptoms of depression. That doesnât mean that your job is to blame, of course, but if everything else in your life is the same and your job has changed, itâs worth asking whether work is the problem. (And in any case, itâs essential to get evaluated by a doctor as soon as possible.) 3. Youâre Not Excited About Your Job Anymore Every day at work doesnât have to feel like a party, but if youâre never excited about your job, somethingâs wrong. You work for many reasons- to keep a roof over your head, to use your skills and talents, perhaps to help others or achieve things most people canât. But without some sense of purpose and passion for work, youâll burn out in a hurry. 4. Youâre Not as Good at Your Job as You Used to Be Maybe youâre making little mistakes that you ordinarily would never make, or maybe youâre less engaged with your work and therefore less effective. But if you feel like youâre not good at your job- and you used to be confident that you were!- you might consider whether itâs time for a change. 5. You Spend a Lot of Time Venting About Work A little griping about work never hurt anyone. (Provided that youâre doing your complaining to a trusted friend, not a coworker who might be your boss someday.) But if youâre spending a lot of your time venting about your job, consider whether the good still outweighs the bad. 6. You Find It Harder to Concentrate Obviously, itâs easier to give something your full attention when youâre engaged with it. Beyond that, hating your job takes a lot of energy. If you loathe your work right now, you probably donât have a lot of energy left over for your actual duties. 7. Your Vices Have Multiplied Cookies are no longer a sometimes treat. Comfort food is on the menu three times a day. And cocktail hour has become cocktail evening and night. Meanwhile, you arenât getting much exercise these days, and the last time you saw a vegetable, it was in a public service message plastered to the wall by your bus stop. (And it made you feel pretty resentful, truth to be told.) 8. You Havenât Had a Raise in a Long, Long Time Money isnât everything, but itâs hard to pay the electric bill without it. Beyond that, itâs hard to feel appreciated when your paycheck has stayed the same while your job requirements have increased. Plus, thanks to inflation, if you donât get regular raises, youâre actually earning less than you were a few years ago. 9. You Donât Have the Time or Energy for Your Outside Interests Maybe itâs because youâre depressed and donât have the energy, or maybe itâs because you work so much that you donât have time to engage in hobbies or spend time with friends and family. Whatever the reason, itâs not a good sign. 10. You Feel Like Youâre Always at Work, Even on Your Day Off The irony of being stuck in a job you hate is that it tends to consume your every waking moment- even if you donât have a boss who calls you at home or emails you at 3 am. Good jobs allow for true work-life balance, which means being able to unplug from work to enjoy your life. If you find that youâre always ruminating about work- or actually working, when youâre meant to be enjoying time off- it might be time to move on.
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